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Conflict Style Decoder

Every person has a conflict style — the habitual way they respond when tensions rise. When those styles clash, the same fights happen over and over. This test decodes your conflict styles and shows you how to break the cycle.

Decode how you and your partner each approach conflict — and discover why certain fights keep happening. Understanding your conflict styles is the key to breaking the cycle.

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What the Conflict Style Decoder measures

This 50-question assessment takes about 20 minutes and looks at 5 key areas:

  • Sympathetic Activation
  • Dorsal Shutdown
  • Social Engagement
  • Neuroception of Safety
  • Co-Regulation & Repair

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Frequently asked questions

Is this test free?
Yes — this test is completely free to take, and you'll see your score and a snapshot of your result straight away. A Compatify Premium subscription unlocks your full breakdown, personalised growth steps, and reflection prompts.
How long does it take?
Most people finish in about 20 minutes. There are 50 questions and no right or wrong answers — just respond as honestly as you can.
What does this test measure?
It looks at Sympathetic Activation, Dorsal Shutdown, Social Engagement, Neuroception of Safety, and Co-Regulation & Repair. Your answers come together into one clear overall picture so you can see where you're strong and where there's room to grow.
Is this test scientifically accurate?
This test is science-informed and built for honest self-reflection — it is not a diagnosis or a clinical assessment. If anything here brings up something difficult, the test page lists confidential support lines you can reach any time.
Is my data private?
Yes. Your answers stay private to your account and are never sold or shared. You can take this test on your own, and decide if and when you share anything with a partner.