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Attachment & Relational Patterns Deep Profile

Going far beyond a quick attachment-style label, this 150-question profile maps how you experience closeness across 15 dimensions — anxiety and avoidance, fear of abandonment, trust, reassurance-seeking, how you respond to conflict and separation, and the deeper expectations you carry about other people. It's a reflective, in-depth look at your relational blueprint and where it can grow.

An in-depth, ~60-minute exploration of how you bond, what you fear in closeness, and the patterns that shape your relationships.

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What the Attachment & Relational Patterns Deep Profile measures

This 150-question assessment takes about 60 minutes and looks at 15 key areas:

  • Comfort with Closeness
  • Attachment Anxiety
  • Attachment Avoidance
  • Fear of Abandonment
  • Trust in Others
  • Reassurance Seeking
  • Emotional Availability
  • Response to Separation
  • Self-Reliance vs Withdrawal
  • Jealousy & Monitoring
  • Self-Worth in Relationships
  • Conflict Activation
  • Repair & Reconnection
  • Working Model of Others
  • Secure Base Behavior

Related assessments

  • Emotional Intelligence Compatibility Test — The Emotional Intelligence Compatibility Test shows how well you both handle emotions, communicate feelings, and navigate challenges with empathy and resilience.
  • Attachment Style Test — Understand your emotional blueprint with the Attachment Style Test. Explore how you connect, seek closeness, and respond to relationship challenges — and how this affects your compatibility.
  • Narcissistic Personality Test — Get clarity with the Narcissistic Personality Test. Understand traits that may be affecting your relationship and learn how to navigate unhealthy dynamics with empathy and awareness.
  • Personality Compatibility Test — Use the classic Myers-Briggs framework to explore personality alignment. This test reveals how your traits support (or challenge) your partnership and how to better relate.

Frequently asked questions

Is this test free?
Yes — this test is completely free to take, and you'll see your score and a snapshot of your result straight away. A Compatify Premium subscription unlocks your full breakdown, personalised growth steps, and reflection prompts.
How long does it take?
Most people finish in about 60 minutes. There are 150 questions and no right or wrong answers — just respond as honestly as you can.
What does this test measure?
It looks at Comfort with Closeness, Attachment Anxiety, Attachment Avoidance, Fear of Abandonment, Trust in Others, Reassurance Seeking, Emotional Availability, Response to Separation, Self-Reliance vs Withdrawal, Jealousy & Monitoring, Self-Worth in Relationships, Conflict Activation, Repair & Reconnection, Working Model of Others, and Secure Base Behavior. Your answers come together into one clear overall picture so you can see where you're strong and where there's room to grow.
Is this test scientifically accurate?
This test is science-informed and built for honest self-reflection — it is not a diagnosis or a clinical assessment. If anything here brings up something difficult, the test page lists confidential support lines you can reach any time.
Is my data private?
Yes. Your answers stay private to your account and are never sold or shared. You can take this test on your own, and decide if and when you share anything with a partner.